tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post8045902251157589706..comments2023-10-28T21:12:52.124+08:00Comments on k0k bL0k: An Eulogyk0k s3n w4ihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09564727389837796019noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post-78970992723812212312009-01-22T13:05:00.000+08:002009-01-22T13:05:00.000+08:00ya..totally changed the way of remembering him..ev...ya..totally changed the way of remembering him..<BR/>everytime i pass by the pondok now, i'll think of the days when me, boon ping and him playing guitar together..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post-43777899140001803622009-01-06T15:00:00.000+08:002009-01-06T15:00:00.000+08:00news on those born in year '86, yes.. very sad.news on those born in year '86, yes.. very sad.senorita..https://www.blogger.com/profile/15899679729045415774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post-85991236067945949232009-01-06T01:41:00.000+08:002009-01-06T01:41:00.000+08:00... oh, mum has a copy of your class mag.... oh, mum has a copy of your class mag.Betsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14712084433175470142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post-77274023939981278092009-01-06T00:06:00.000+08:002009-01-06T00:06:00.000+08:00Zzzyun: I wasn't really afraid of death when I was...Zzzyun: I wasn't really afraid of death when I was younger. I was more afraid thinking how pointless human life is.<BR/><BR/>Betsy: You were too young to remember anyway, and it happened in the middle of the night and caused a bit of a ruckus.<BR/><BR/>senorita: Or maybe he is in no place at all. Or reincarnated, even. I kinda imagined that a lot of people have considered offing themselves at some point or other of their lives. We seem to get a lot of news of deaths about people born in our year. We are frightfully mortal.<BR/><BR/>bevE: I thought you didn't want to comment. Why are you describing LSD overdose death? (Disneyland Hong Kong!)<BR/><BR/>yuhhui: I wonder how is it like, being our grandparents' age and hearing news about the death of the people we know all the time. Makes me feel that no matter how old we get, we still won't get used to life. I always used to think that by the time we're adults, we'd receive all the answers - or a handbook, at least. Sigh, looks like life is one big ad lib after all.<BR/><BR/>MichelleG: It must be harder even for his family. I think I've lost my copy of my class magazine, but there really wasn't a lot about him in there, unfortunately.<BR/><BR/>Dr.Vishaal Bhat: That's a nice way of putting it. Well, he had his reasons - and it's not my place to say that they aren't good enough.<BR/><BR/>sinye: I think I might have heard him mention you before. Death sure changes the way you remember someone, eh?<BR/><BR/>AP: I really don't know which is scarier; the prospect of living forever under the watch of a tyrannical God who does not understand the first thing about human lives, or the big blackout. Maybe, it's just the finality of it - how both are completely out of our controls. Because of that, I'm not going to squander life, the first and last thing which we do have some power over. Stay away from that pit, man.<BR/><BR/>nissy: I wasn't depressed while I was still your roommate. I wasn't at all depressed in the first year. Also, I don't believe in talking about the ethics of suicide or about timely interventions at this point of time because it is very pointless to do so. That's why words in the memory of the deceased are called eulogies - we praise. We can talk about how a person's life has been, but not how it <I>could</I> have been. This is what our psychiatry textbooks don't teach us.k0k s3n w4ihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09564727389837796019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post-29986552512925435892009-01-05T12:49:00.000+08:002009-01-05T12:49:00.000+08:00i'm sorry to hear that.but i do think majority of ...i'm sorry to hear that.<BR/>but i do think majority of ppl would condemn suicide as a choice.<BR/>he could be saved if intervention was done earlier.<BR/>well, if u were going suicidal when u were my roommate at that moment; i think i wasn't really aware of it until shaki explained what really happened to u.<BR/>now that i've read about depression, you seem to have a period of poor speech and increase in sleep.<BR/>good thing u got over it. or else i might just open the door next day, and see u hanging on the wall. :|<BR/>cheers!nissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08533075949447406647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post-3720472434483113262009-01-04T21:43:00.000+08:002009-01-04T21:43:00.000+08:00for someone who seeks it death would be less scary...for someone who seeks it death would be less scary if there weren't the thought of a possible afterlife i would want none of it if i were ever on that ledge. figuratively speaking i was there- i imagined how that decision would ruin the lives of my family and how they would suffer the memory of me... in that thought death is a continuance, if just for a mere few decades but as long as i held onto that notion i have my excuse for livingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post-64412520156793699722009-01-02T02:59:00.000+08:002009-01-02T02:59:00.000+08:00tuition mate..used to sit right behind me..may him...tuition mate..used to sit right behind me..<BR/><BR/>may him rest in peace..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post-42585720293066461262009-01-01T17:04:00.000+08:002009-01-01T17:04:00.000+08:00Wish he had chosen to carry on... But then again a...Wish he had chosen to carry on... But then again after staring at the pit for so long maybe he found light there... May he rest in peace.Vishaalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03049533825508212991noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post-79092715940209736562009-01-01T02:45:00.000+08:002009-01-01T02:45:00.000+08:00i felt sad too.. i guess ur rite, may be he was ju...i felt sad too.. i guess ur rite, may be he was just projecting the 'goofy image' to hide his real self. altho i dont really know him well but i did know him and i was looking at ur 4sc1 magazine, it's just unbelievable and sad that something like that could happen to someone that we know. <BR/><BR/>sigh. hope he's in a better place now...mghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01431771689295319941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post-5421128671879341242008-12-31T21:10:00.000+08:002008-12-31T21:10:00.000+08:00i'm sorry to hear about it. As we grow older, we h...i'm sorry to hear about it. As we grow older, we hear more stories about friends dying huh. It's scary!<BR/><BR/>I agree that dying is hard. I don't think I would ever have the guts to even attempt suicide. Yet again, situations push people to their limits. To really want to die... that calls for desperation for a way out, to end it all and not suffer. And yes, your friend is indeed rather brave. I hope he's in a happier place now. May he rest in peace.yuhhuihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08686649407044019910noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post-80795508811175603332008-12-31T15:45:00.000+08:002008-12-31T15:45:00.000+08:00death is a sparkly place with shining crystals and...death is a sparkly place with shining crystals and stalagmites and the other ones. it's the place where lollipops grow from the ground and candy canes hang upside down from ceilings, and where the tooth fairies drop the prettiest whitest teeth.<BR/><BR/>it is the prettiest place among all the lands.<BR/><BR/>:3<BR/><BR/>(disneyland JAPAN)févrierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16255612481903720670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post-17661081720592524362008-12-31T11:32:00.000+08:002008-12-31T11:32:00.000+08:00it's never easy to have to digest death news. let ...it's never easy to have to digest death news. let alone news about friends, young people of our age. and yes, ur fren was brave. i couldnt kill myself when i wanted to. it seriously takes lots of guts to do it. may ur fren rest in peace.senorita..https://www.blogger.com/profile/15899679729045415774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post-73457984262743090572008-12-31T11:30:00.000+08:002008-12-31T11:30:00.000+08:00sorry this happened. hope ur friend is in a better...sorry this happened. hope ur friend is in a better place now.senorita..https://www.blogger.com/profile/15899679729045415774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post-26707394202407322332008-12-31T03:16:00.000+08:002008-12-31T03:16:00.000+08:00I wrote a really long-winded comment but the pc su...I wrote a really long-winded comment but the pc suddenly auto shut down. Anyway, one of my close friend is the sister to your friend. I'm sure your friend will be deeply missed. Cause his sister cried her heart out when she found out. And, I'm really lost on what to say or do to comfort my friend. *sigh*<BR/><BR/>... and suicide is definitely the last thing on my mind. So, 'I don't want to die' sounded like something I'll say although I have no remembrance of it at all...Betsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14712084433175470142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-246194140200675056.post-36204345296240897492008-12-31T00:03:00.000+08:002008-12-31T00:03:00.000+08:00im sorry to hear abt ur friend.regarding the topic...im sorry to hear abt ur friend.<BR/><BR/>regarding the topic of death, i used to be very scared of it when i was young. especially when night falls. it was my worse nightmare and the worse thing, there was no escaping it. because i was scared of becoming 'nothing' after death.<BR/><BR/>i guess death is one of the reasons why ppl come up with religions and afterlife afterall. to alleviate the fear of the unknown.Zzzyunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04647270985951112828noreply@blogger.com